How to Design a Romantic Bedroom | 7 Elegant & Inviting Bedroom Styling Tips

How to Design a Romantic Bedroom | 7 Elegant & Inviting Bedroom Styling Tips

Suzie Anderson | Owner of Suzie Anderson Home Suzie Anderson | Owner of Suzie Anderson Home
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Today we will be sharing our ideas for creating a romantic bedroom that fosters connection, warmth, and relaxation.

Throughout history, humans have yearned for environments that exude romance, comfort, safety, and togetherness. 

A fascinating study exploring various interior design preferences revealed that among the 29 identified ambiences, participants desired an average of 16 for their homes, including the desire for a romantic bedroom. 

This sheds light on the intrinsic connection between ambiance and environment, suggesting that our homes possess not only physical attributes that aid in practical tasks but also psychological qualities that impact our sense of well-being.

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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tips

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If you are interested in learning more about the study, you can read the full study here.

In addition, they found that elements such as lighting levels, temperature, music, colour schemes, room layout, and decorative accessories can have a cumulative effect on our emotional state.

For more ideas on creating a sensory home, we recommend our journal “Comfortable Living: How to Design a Sensory Home”. 

With this deeper understanding, you can discover our top tips for designing a romantic bedroom below.


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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #1

Delicate Colour Palette:

A romantic colour palette typically consists of soft, muted hues that evoke a sense of intimacy, warmth, and elegance.

Ideas include:

  • Soft, warm hues like muted pinks, lavender, lilac, and pale blues.

  • Earthy tones such as warm browns, soft terracottas, or muted greens.

  • Soft neutral shades of ivory, cream, beige, or soft greys.

  • Deep, rich reds for a passionate and luxurious feel.

  • Lastly, metallic accents like gold, bronze, or silver nickel can add lustre to a romantic colour palette. 

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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #2

Soft Lighting:

A comprehensive and layered light scheme plays a key role in creating a romantic ambience.  

Ideas include:

  • Dimmer Switches: Dimmed lights instantly create a more intimate and cosy environment. Consider installing dimmer switches for your main lighting fixtures or lamps. This will allow you to adjust the intensity of the light according to your desired atmosphere. 

  • Install Soft and Warm Light Bulbs: Choose bulbs with a warm temperature to create a romantic and inviting glow. 

  • Layered Light Sources: Incorporate a variety of ambient, accent, task, and mood lighting to add depth and variety to the room. This allows you to create different lighting levels and focal points.

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  • Task Lighting: Placing bedside table lamps or wall sconces on either side of the bed can provide soft and focused light for reading or intimate conversations. 

  • Accent Lighting: Consider installing wall lamps or picture lights to draw attention to artwork, architectural details, or focal points like a canopy, headboard, or an elegant piece of furniture. Accent lighting adds a touch of drama and creates a romantic ambiance.

  • Candlelight: Candles are a classic and timeless way to create a romantic atmosphere. The flickering flame provides a warm and intimate glow that instantly transforms the space.


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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #3

Luxurious Bedding & Sensory Textures:

Investing in high-quality bedding materials will offer comfort, opulence, and beauty.

In addition to a mattress protector and topper, sheets made from quality silk, bamboo, luxury linens, or crisp hotel-like cotton sheets will form a beautiful base layer. 

Top with a sumptuous duvet, comforter, or quilt, in addition to plush pillows and cushions for an elevated and inviting experience. 

Integrating soft textures throughout the room, such as plush rugs, fluffy pillows, faux fur throws, sheepskins, and delicately embroidered cushions will add an extra layer of comfort.

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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #4

Bed Canopy or Elegant Drapes:

Next, consider adding a canopy above the bed or utilizing a combination of floor-to-ceiling curtains and velvet drapes or black-out blinds for a sense of privacy and intimacy. 

Lightweight fabrics like chiffon, linen, or sheer cotton will allow for a soft, filtered light effect throughout the day, creating a soft and romantic atmosphere. 


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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #5

Cosy Furniture:

In addition to your bed and nightstands, consider creating a designated seating area within the bedroom, such as an inviting armchair, chaise lounge, day bed, or a loveseat to serve as a cosy nook that encourages relaxation and intimate conversations.

Other cosy furniture ideas include:

  • An oversized upholstered ottoman or pouf.

  • A romantic accent chair featuring soft, curved lines, and upholstery.

  • A traditional dresser or chest of drawers to keep items organised and clutter-free.  

  • An elegant vanity or dresser table.

Lastly, smart storage solutions such as baskets, trays, and wardrobes are essential for keeping belongings out of sight, and help to minimise distractions, allowing the mind to rest. 

Romantic Bedroom Furniture

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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #6

Alluring Scents:

Introduce subtle scents into the bedroom using scented candles, essential oil diffusers, linen and room sprays, or fresh flowers. 

Select scents that contribute to a feeling of romance and relaxation, such as rose, lavender, vanilla, ylang-ylang, sandalwood, bergamot, jasmine, and more. 

Due to the subjective nature and appeal of fragrances, experiment with different combinations to create a personalised and romantic atmosphere in your bedroom.

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Romantic Bedroom Decor

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Romantic Bedroom Styling Tip #7

Personal Touches:

Lastly, infuse your bedroom with a curated selection of personal touches that reflect what you love and value most.

This may include framed photos, artwork, trinket dishes, objet d’art, books, a beautiful water carafe and tumbler, a bedside tray, items from your travels, a stunning seasonal floral arrangement, fresh greenery, or any other sentimental items that hold cherished memories.

In addition, strategically placed mirrors are an impactful way to circulate natural light throughout the room and will create an illusion of a larger space. Consider ornate or vintage-inspired mirrors to add a touch of whimsy and elegance to the room.

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We trust you enjoyed these tips for designing a romantic bedroom and feel inspired to introduce these elements into your own home.

Remember when designing a home you love, the beauty is in the detail.

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